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Helen Louise Billings

Helen Louise Billings of Johnston died April 23, 2023, at Bishop Drumm Care Center. She was born on July 23, 1927, and grew up in Ava, Missouri. She was active in band, chorus and mixed doubles tennis. She sang for funerals at the Clinkingbeard Funeral Home.
Helen earned a two-year degree, majoring in music, at William Woods College in Fulton, Missouri. She taught in Doniphan, Missouri, then at Park Avenue school in Des Moines. She married Joe Billings on April 22, 1955. They had two sons, David and Steve. They moved to Johnston in 1961.
Helen taught third grade in Johnston for 30 years, many years at Lawson Elementary. She was one of two teachers inducted into the inaugural class of the Johnston Schools Hall of Fame.
She attended countless ball games and track meets to watch her sons as they attended school at Johnston. She also loved watching her grandchildren, Alex and Jayme, compete in horse shows. Helen joined Joe on his vacation travels. They spent many winters in Phoenix following her retirement.
She found great enjoyment and satisfaction as a mother, grandmother and teacher, but working in their yard cultivating beautiful flowers and plants was her passion.
Helen was preceded in death by her parents; husband, Joe Billings; brother, Sam Wiggins; sister, Mary Clinkingbeard; and son, David Billings. Survivors include her son, Steve Billings (Shellie) of rural Dallas Center; grandson, Alex Billings of Pella; and granddaughter, Jayme Ruhnke (Nick) of Laurel.
Memorial gifts to the Johnston Public Library Foundation are welcomed.
A private burial service will be held at a future date.

Edward Claude Weir

Edward Claude Weir was born in Portsmouth on July 12, 1932. He died Saturday, April 15, 2023, at the Taylor Hospice House in Des Moines at the age of 90.
After he was orphaned at the age of 11, he was sent to Father Flanagan’s Boys Town in Omaha, Nebraska. There he sang in choirs, including one hand-selected to travel with Father Flanagan all over the country. A photo of Father Flanagan and the choir, including Ed, still hangs at Boys Town. Eventually, he was sent to foster homes until taken in by a farm family in Stuart. Ed finished high school at Dowling Catholic High School in Des Moines. He then enlisted in the U. S. Navy and served his country during the Korean Conflict. After the Navy, he married Joy. They were married 54 years and had six children.
He owned a painting company and volunteered for the Johnston Fire Department for years. He belonged to the Lions Club and American Legion. He and Joy were active in their churches in Johnston and Grand River.
Those relatives who preceded Ed in death were his parents; loving wife Joy Fay Weir; sisters, Wrennie Doud, Roberta J. Weir and Beverly Carey, as well as his brother, Chuck Tedesco.
He is survived by daughters Sheryl (Jay) Coleman, Jana (Jody) Arment, Donella (Jim) Wright, and Debra (Chris) McComb; his son, Edward “Sonny” Weir; grandchildren Andrew (Elyse) Wright, Jason Arment, Alexandra Wright, Jocelyn (Joshua) Holmberg, Joshua Arment, Chelsea (Robert) Koenigsdorf, Christopher McComb, Cole Weir, Caitlyn (Jordan) Larsen; great-grandchildren: Faye, Nell, Jaxson, Celease, Stella, Laurel and Olivia; sisters, Vonda Johnson and Mary (Jack) Lonsdale.
Services were at St. Patrick Catholic Church in Grand River April 29. Interment was at the Oak Hill Cemetery near Grand River. Memorial contributions may be made to Boys Town. Online condolences may be made to the family at www.kalefuneralhome.com.

Larry Dean Mullenax

Larry Dean Mullenax, 62, died April 21, 2023, after a short battle with brain cancer. A celebration of Larry’s life will be held on May 6 from 2-4 p.m. at Caldwell Parrish Funeral Home – Adel Chapel, with a short service of remembrance beginning at 4 p.m. Burial will take place at a later date.
Larry was born Feb. 2, 1961, to Kerth and Jane Mullenax. He was a journeyman carpenter with the Local 106 Carpenters Union for more than 30 years. Larry married Leslie Kinnison and together they raised their children, Jacques and Chelsea. He was a proud father who loved spending time with his family. He also enjoyed woodworking, gardening and taking a nice walk.
He is survived by his wife of 36 years, Leslie Mullanax; children, Jacques (Crystal) Mullenax and Chelsea Mullenax; and a large extended family.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be directed to the family. Online condolences may be left to the family at www.caldwellparrish.com.

John Cashman

John Cashman, 81, of Van Meter, died at his home with his family by his side on Friday, April 14, 2023. Visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m., Monday, April 24, at Caldwell Parrish Funeral Home, Adel Chapel. Mass of Christian burial will begin at 10:30 a.m., Tuesday, April 25, at St. Boniface Catholic Church in Waukee. Burial will follow in the Iowa Veterans Cemetery at 12:30 p.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be directed to the Van Meter American Legion and to the Wounded Warriors Project. Online condolences may be left for the family at www.caldwellparrish.com.
John was born on June 17, 1941, in Cedar Rapids to John and Christina (Evers) Cashman. He graduated from Prairieburg High School with the class of 1959. He joined the United States Navy in 1960 and was proud to serve his country. In October of 1973, John married the love of his life and best friend, Gwen Werner, in San Diego, California. He received a bachelor’s degree in accounting from Drake University in 1979. John worked as a CPA and operated his own firm until retiring at the age of 80.
John was a member of the Van Meter American Legion and was proud of his military service. He was a very giving and generous man who loved to help others when they needed a hand or getting back on their feet. John enjoyed going to the Iowa State Fair and his Harley Davidson motorcycle. John also loved to work. He loved his farm, his family, and, most importantly, his wife.
John is survived by his wife, Gwen; sons, DJ (Dawn) Cashman and Tom Jackman; daughter, Patti (Scott) Judd; sisters, Patricia Holub and Monica Carpenter; four grandchildren, with the most dearest to his heart in Cayli Cashman; and two great grandchildren. He was preceded in death by his parents; son James Jackman; and sister, Mary Ann Devlin.

Nicholas Andrews (Timmons) Meeker

Nicholas Andrews (Timmons) Meeker, 38, of Adel died peacefully on April 12, 2023, with his family by his side. A memorial service will be held Saturday, April 22, at Caldwell Parrish Funeral Home in Adel. Family will greet friends from 1-1:30 p.m., followed by a short service with Rev. Michael Walrod. Following the service, burial will take place at the Oakdale Cemetery, followed by a celebration of life at the Sportsman Club, Adel, with food, a drink and many great stories.
Nick was born on Nov. 12, 1984, in Denver, Colorado. His family then moved to Rosemead, California, before moving to Iowa in 1992. Nick attended Perry High School, where he enjoyed football and wrestling and made it to the State Wrestling Tournament. Following school, Nick joined Carpenters Local 106 to pursue his career in construction alongside his father.
Nick loved growing up in the country. You could always find him walking the creek with his sister and golden retriever, Hans. Nick loved camping and fishing with the family. He spent hours on the trampoline with friends, swimming in the pool or riding his preferred method of transportation, the go-cart. Nick would spend endless hours with his brother playing Everquest on the computer, which turned into a lifelong hobby of computers and gaming.
He is survived by his father, Patrick Meeker; mother, Dina (Kirk) Bannick; siblings, Holly Meeker and Noah (Alexandria) Meeker; nephew Liam and niece Alyssa Meeker; cousins Tylynn (Travis) Samuel and Jet Timmons; grandparents Berkeley and Karen Andrews; aunt and uncle Berkeley, (Julie) Andrews Jr. and Jody (Bob) Goemmer. He was preceded in death by his daughter, Abigail; great-grandparents Roger and Margaret Ebbets; great-grandfather George Berkeley; and grandparents Larry and Sherry Trenkel.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be directed to the family for future designation. Online condolences may be left at www.caldwellparrish

Joe Shields

Joe Shields, 80, of Adel, died unexpectedly at his home on April 17, 2023, in Adel. A visitation was held Thursday, April 20, at the Caldwell Parrish Funeral Home in Adel. A funeral service to celebrate Joe’s life will be held at 3 p.m. Friday, April 21, at the New Hope Church, east of Adel. A private family committal service will be held on Saturday at the Bedford Cemetery.
Joseph Shields, the son of Darrell and Mona (Forney) Shields, was born Nov. 7, 1942, in Bedford. Joe graduated from Bedford High school in 1960. Joe lived in Adel most of his life where he worked for the Booneville Co-op for many years. Joe had many hobbies including hunting, fishing, camping, riding his motorcycle and walking his dogs.
Joe is survived by his children, Darrell, Debbie, Joe and Travis; sister, Julia McGeary; several grandchildren and great-grandchildren. He is also survived by his close, personal friend, Cheryl Hutzell, and his dog, Buddy.
He was preceded in death by his parents and his nephew, Mark Mattes.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be directed to Joe’s family. Online condolences may be left at www.caldwellparrish.com.

Debra Jean McIlhon

Debra Jean McIlhon died Monday, April 10, at Kavanagh Hospice House following a sudden hemorrhagic stroke 13 days prior. Her daughter, Molly, and son-in-law, Tony, were by her side as she took her last breaths.
Debbie was the youngest child of Robert and Doris Blitsch, born in Cedar Falls on June 9, 1953. She graduated from Cedar Falls High School in 1971. She was a fun and popular gal and was nominated to the Homecoming Court her senior year.
After graduation, Debbie worked as a secretary for Curb Master and later the City of Cedar Falls. She was proud of the work she did and enjoyed her time working for the City.
She married Joe McIlhon on Dec. 16, 1978. They had two children, Molly and Joseph.
Debbie converted to Catholicism in 1980. Her faith became an integral part of who she was.
Debbie is survived by her daughter, Molly (Tony) Fiddelke, granddaughters Margaret Fiddelke and Sydney McIlhon, brother Bob (Linda) Blitsch, sister Joann (Rex) Rockey and many brothers and sisters-in-law, nieces, nephews and friends.
She was preceded in death by her parents, Robert and Doris Blitsch; her guardians, John and Beulah Rockey; son, Joseph; husband, Joe; and nephew, Andrew Ulrich.
Memorial contributions can be directed to her family for her granddaughters’ education and activities.
A funeral mass of Christian burial was Friday, April 14, at Holy Trinity Catholic Church in Beaverdale. Interment was at Glendale immediately following.

Jack Mendrys

Jack Mendrys, 76, of Johnston, died Friday, April 7, 2023, after a short battle with lung cancer. Born on Nov. 22, 1946, to John and Hildegarde Mendrys, Jack grew up in Westchester, Illinois, and attended Proviso West High School. He graduated from Drake University with degrees in business administration and education. He was a member of Tau Kappa Epsilon and made lifelong friends and brothers. He remained active as chapter advisor for many years.
He started his career teaching science, math and history at St. Pius and St. Theresa schools in the Des Moines area. He then found his passion selling and restoring antiques in 1975. He owned and operated two Valley Junction businesses, Century Shoppe, Ltd and Shull’s Furniture Restoration. Upon retirement, he continued to work in Johnston at Four Corners Feed and the Hy-Vee meat counter. Jack made friends wherever he went and worked.
Jack married Connie Taylor in 1969 and raised three daughters.
Jack is survived by his wife, Connie; his daughters, Jennifer (Brian) of Highlands Ranch, Colorado, Melanie of Prairie Village, Kansas, and Allison (Kent) of Highlands Ranch, Colorado; and his five grandchildren, Kate, Quinn, Meredith, Nora and Jack.
Memorial contributions may be made to Living History Farms to support scholarships for summer camp or a charity of your choice.
A celebration of his life will be Friday, May 5 (come anytime from 3-6 p.m.), in the building he owned and operated his businesses for 40 years, which is now St. Kilda Collective in Valley Junction, 333 Fifth St., West Des Moines.

Retha Leila (Hunt) Masengill

Retha Leila (Hunt) Masengill, 95, of Dallas Center died April 3, 2023, at Adel Acres in Adel. Retha was born in Perry Dec. 18, 1927, to Forrest and Clara Hunt. She married Edgar “Bud” Masengill on March 30, 1947, in Adel. She worked at Woodward State Hospital for many years. Retha was Elvis Presley’s No. 1 fan. She loved working crossword puzzles and writing poetry. She was well known for her cooking and baking, which she generously shared with others. Her greatest joy was spending time with her grandchildren.
Retha is survived by her children, Terry (Kathy) Masengill of Dallas Center and Sherie Russell of Huxley; grandchildren, Tammy (Tom) Yokley, Shelly Hadley and Andrew (Amanda) Willis; great grandchildren, Tommy (Megan) Yokley, Trevor (Chandler) Yokley and Shelleah Hadley; great-great-granddaughters Millie and Lennon Yokley; and sisters, Sondra Paul and Sherrill (Rodney) Henry. She was preceded in death by her husband; parents; brothers, Lynn, Kreigh and Burdette; sisters, Karean Selicon, Arlis Dollarhide, Arleta Grove, Afton Cabelka and Donna Correy; and great-grandson Joshua Webster.
A celebration of life will be at 1 p.m. on Saturday, April 15, at Legion Memorial Hall in Dallas Center. Memorial contributions are suggested to Legion Auxiliary Post 49 Dallas Center or Suncrest Hospice.

Helen Dawes

Helen Dawes, 96, of Adel, passed away peacefully surrounded by her family on March 22, 2023, at Kavanagh House in Des Moines. Helen was born on Feb. 4, 1927, to Ruby Dawson Wicks of rural Adel; her father, Leroy Wicks, died 12 days before she was born. Helen graduated from Adel High School in 1946. After graduation, she worked with her sister, Lola, in Des Moines at the ACS office and the Iowa State Tax Commission.
Helen married Lowell Dawes on June 6, 1948. Helen and Lowell grew up less than half a mile from each other. They rode horses together to the country school, and both went to Adel High School. Lowell and Helen celebrated 67 wedding anniversaries together. Her family and faith were always the center of her life.
Helen enjoyed her S&V Club, card party groups, the Red Hat Society, and playing cribbage and bridge. Helen grew up in the Panther Creek Church of the Brethren and was active in the church her entire life. She taught Sunday school, served on the Church Board, decorated the worship center, and worked with the Women’s Fellowship and Food Committees.
Helen will be greatly missed by her surviving children, Nick (Peg) Dawes, Barb Dawes, John (Mark Walker); daughter-in-law Marilyn Dawes; nine grandchildren, 13 great-grandchildren; and a host of nieces, nephews and friends. She was preceded in death by her parents; husband; her son, C. Randall (Randy) Dawes; two sisters; brother; and granddaughter-in-law, Laurie Tryon Dawes.
A funeral service was held March 28 at Panther Creek Church of the Brethren northwest of Adel. Burial will take place at the Oakdale Cemetery in Adel. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be directed in Helen’s memory to the Panther Creek Church or to a charity of your choice. Online condolences may be left at www.caldwellparrish.com.

Alice (Ballard) Bettes

Alice (Ballard) Bettes was born on Dec. 6, 1936, in Tahlequah, Oklahoma, the daughter of Miller T. and Elizabeth (Carroll) Ballard. Alice married Jerry Bettes on May 28, 1965, in Enid, Oklahoma. Alice enjoyed collecting antiques and dolls and watching Western movies and shows. She also enjoyed playing bingo, going to the casino and shopping. But most of all, Alice enjoyed spending time with her family.
Alice died Tuesday, March 21 at her home in Adel. She was 86 years old. She is survived by her children, David and Jill, William and Robbin, Gordon and Lee, Alan and Anna, and Greg and Sheri; sister, Barbara Hutchison; grandchildren, Jenny, Nathan, Taylor, Jim, John, Joe, Kendra, Jerica, Arvid, Karissa, Courtney, and Austin; great-grandchildren, Ethan, Emma, Bowie, Nevara, Harper, Henry, Brianna, Georgia, Lila, Afton, Evlyn, Olivia, Shawn, Carson, Lenox, Weston, Louis and Eri; and many nieces and nephews.
Alice was preceded in death by his parents; first husband, William Morton; second husband, Jerry Bettes; daughter, Debra Alice Morton; son, Kenneth J. Bettes; and great-granddaughter, Soren.
Funeral service for Alice will be held at 11 a.m. on Monday, March 27 at Caldwell Parrish Funeral Home & Crematory ~ McCalley Chapel in Adel. Visitation will be held from 9:30 to 11 a.m. with burial in Oakdale Cemetery. Memorials may be directed to his family for a future designation.

Julie Ann Scott

Julie Ann Scott, 64, died Saturday, March 25, 2023, at Taylor Hospice House in Des Moines from complications of cancer. Services will be held at 11 a.m. Saturday, April 1 at Iles Brandt Chapel in Dallas Center. Burial will follow at Elmwood Cemetery, Minburn. The service will be livestreamed on the Iles website. Go to IlesCares.com at 10:45 a.m. Saturday and scroll to the bottom of Julie’s obituary to join in the service.
Julie was born Sept. 30, 1958, in Perry, to Billy and Norma (Smotherman) Withem. She graduated from Central Dallas Community in 1977. Julie married Randal Scott on April 23, 1977, at the Minburn Church of Christ, and they made their home outside of Minburn where they raised their two children. Julie had worked at Continental Western Insurance company for 14 years. She later worked as a substitute associate for Adel-DeSoto-Minburn, Woodward, and Central Dallas School Districts. She was a member of the American Legion Auxiliary in Minburn.
Julie enjoyed crafts, working with clay and shopping with her daughter, Nikki. Her greatest joy and passion was her family, especially her grandchildren. Julie always had a strong faith and had enjoyed playing the piano at church for many years. Traveling to Ohio with Randy to see family was something she also enjoyed.
Julie is survived by her husband, Randal Scott; daughter, Nikki (Todd) Rippel of Rowley; son, Daniel (Jen) Scott of Jamaica; four grandchildren, Lucas Rippel, Kenslea Scott, Jamison Scott, and Parker Scott; and her brother, Jeff (Karen) Withem of Minburn. She was preceded in death by her parents.
The family will receive friends from 5-7 p.m. Friday, March 31, at Iles Brandt Chapel. Contributions may be made to the Taylor House Hospice. Online condolences will be welcomed at IlesCares.com.

Patrick Joseph McCarthy

Patrick Joseph McCarthy, 52, of Adel, died March 16, 2023, in West Des Moines. Patrick was born to William and Paulette (King) McCarthy on May 15, 1970, in Des Moines. He was raised in West Des Moines and graduated from Valley High School before earning his bachelor’s degree from the University of Northern Iowa. Patrick was a commercial driver for Brown Logistics for many years.
Patrick is survived by his wife, Vickie; son, Drew; mother; two sisters; and numerous aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and cousins. He was preceded in death by his father.
A celebration of life was held Saturday, March 25 at the Waukee Community Center. Memorial donations may be made via: gofund.me/582aa58e to be used for a college education fund for Patrick’s son, Drew. Ernst Funeral & Cremation Services of Waukee was entrusted with Patrick’s final arrangements.

Richard Remster

Richard Remster, 90, of Adel, died March 26, 2023. A visitation was March 30 at Caldwell Parrish Funeral Home in Adel followed by a committal service at the Iowa Veterans Cemetery. Memorials may be directed to Every Step Hospice. Online condolences may be left at www.caldwellparrish.com.

Isabel ‘Chavela’ (Terrazas) Neibergall

Isabel “Chavela” (Terrazas) Neibergall died Sunday, March 19, 2023. She was born July 8, 1935, in El Paso, Texas, to Jesus and Francisca (Marquez) Terrazas, the oldest daughter of 11 children. She graduated as the salutatorian of the Class of 1953 at Bowie High in El Paso.
During her freshman year at Texas Western College (now UTEP), she met Larry, the love of her life. They soon married and started a family, eventually having seven kids and settling in Des Moines. Not only did they scrimp to send the kids to Catholic grade school (St. Theresa’s) and high school (Dowling Catholic), but with Larry’s encouragement, she went to Drake University and completed her college degree, earning a B.A. in business administration in 1975.
Isabel then took a job at Job Service of Iowa, where she would rise to fraud investigator and from which she would retire. She sang in the St. Theresa’s choir; drove kids to ballet lessons, baseball/football/basketball practice and games, orchestra, and medical appointments; and did a lot of laundry and cooking. And there wasn’t a craft she didn’t love — quilting, crocheting, needlepoint, knitting, sewing, etc.
In the early 1980s, Chavela survived a tough battle with breast cancer. At Thanksgiving of 1986, a heart attack took her beloved Larry. She later traveled to Spain, Germany, Australia, Hawaii and Tahiti. At 75, she whitewater rafted and rode a zipline in Costa Rica. And for several years, she sang with the Sweet Adelines. She also found time to marry and begin a new chapter with John Crowell. Isabel was a woman of deep faith.
She is survived by her children: Bill, Patrick (Kerry), Dorothy Hurt (Donald J.), Michael (Kathryn), Catherine Bellis (Bryan), and Charlie (Jean); her siblings: Maggie Najera (Manny), Hurt Jr., Jordan L. Hurt, Benjamin Neibergall, Aaron Bellis, Brianna Bellis, Nicole Bellis, Nick Neibergall and Abby Neibergall; her great grandchildren, Frank, Sal (Adele), Cecilia Cobos (Manny), Manny (Carmen), Johnny (Lucy), and Eddie (Alicia); her grandchildren: Rachel Adkins (Austin), Laura Neibergall, John Henry Gaps, Ethan Gaps (Nicole), Sarah Bonsall (John), Emilia Gaps, Donald J., George Bonsall, Carina Bonsall, John Bonsall, Lawrence Gaps, Roger Gaps, and Cordelia Gaps. She was preceded in death by her husband, Larry Neibergall; daughter, Gina Neibergall; parents, Jesus and Francisca Terrazas; brothers Gilbert Terrazas, Jesus Terrazas and Danny Terrazas; and grandchildren Lauren Hurt and Andre Hurt.
Contributions may be made to Urbandale Food Pantry (urbandalefoodpantry.org), St. Pius X Catholic Church (stpiusxurbandale.org), or the Larry E. and Isabel T. Neibergall Memorial Scholarship fund at Drake University. Visitation was Thursday, March 23, at Iles Westover Funeral Home. A funeral mass was March 24 at St. Pius X Catholic Church. Lunch was served and followed by a graveside service in Glendale Cemetery in Des Moines.

Linda Catanzaro Boberg

Linda Catanzaro Boberg, 68, of Johnston was surrounded by family as she died peacefully from metastatic breast cancer on March 19, 2023, while in hospice care at Taylor House in Des Moines. Linda was born on March 17, 1955, as the first of seven girls born to Joseph Catanzaro and Constance Parker Catanzaro and grew up in Holiday Hills, Illinois. She was a 1973 graduate of Marian Central Catholic High School, received a bachelor’s degree in English writing in 1977 from Augustana College, Rock Island, Illinois, and received a master’s degree in counseling and guidance for college student personnel in 2008 at California Lutheran University (CLU).
Linda married David Boberg on June 10, 1978, in McHenry, Illinois. Linda worked as an elementary school teacher, a production editor at Rand McNally Publishing, a receptionist at Hillel Foundation for Student Life at New York Stony Brook University, a chapel administrative assistant, and an assistant director, Multicultural Programs & International Student Services at CLU. In 2019, she rekindled her passion for writing and self-published six romance novels in three years under the pen name Adelyn Zara.
She was preceded in death by her parents, Joseph and Constance Parker Catanzaro; her sister, Mary Kay Catanzaro; and her father-in-law, Russell Boberg. She is survived by her husband, David Boberg; sons, Daniel Boberg (Sydney Protheroe) and Patrick (Marieta Wind) Boberg; daughter, Meg Boberg (Shawn Peterson); granddaughters, Emmalyn and Elliana; sisters, Deborah (Chris) Hansen, Jeanne Lindaur, Angela (Dale) Daugherty, Roseanne (Steve) Niese and Constance Catanzaro; mother-in-law, Darlene Boberg; brothers-in-law Lee (Peggy) Boberg and Brian (Cathy) Boberg; and sister-in-law, Kay (Jeff) Peacock.
A visitation was held at Caldwell Parrish Funeral Home, Urbandale, on March 23. Mass of Christian Burial was Friday, March 24, at St. Francis of Assisi Catholic Church, West Des Moines. A graveside service followed. Memorials are suggested to METAvivor.org, a nonprofit organization that funds research to help improve the longevity and quality of life for metastatic breast cancer patients.

Miriam Margaret Sherrard

Miriam Margaret Sherrard, 89, died March 19, 2023, at home with her loving family by her side. Her funeral was March 24 at St. Joseph Catholic Church with burial at Glendale Cemetery. Visitation was at Iles Grandview Park Chapel with a Rosary recited. Memorial contributions may be given to Suncrest Hospice.
Miriam Margaret, the daughter of John and Esther (Nicolle) Murray, was born April 5, 1933, in Des Moines. Following her high school graduation, she worked at Iowa Des Moines National Bank where she met Leslie Edward Sherrard. They were married on Oct. 15, 1955.
Miriam enjoyed gardening and baking. She was skilled at sewing, embroidery and cross stitch. Miriam and her mother made a lot of the children’s clothing growing up. She also played the piano and sang in St. Joseph’s church choir.
Miriam was preceded in death by her parents and her husband. She is survived by her children: Thomas Sherrard, Mary Patricia Sherrard, Jean Sherrard-Fifo (Kevin), Joseph Sherrard (Mary Louise), Elizabeth Sherrard, Michael Sherrard and Eileen Moncada (Juan); grandchildren: Jason Danielson, Christina Johnson, Shannon Sherrard, Mark Sherrard, Jacqueline Sherrard, Athan Moncada, Isabelle Moncada, Juan Moncada Jr., Diane Moncada, Jennifer Dodd and James Dodd; 11 great-grandchildren; and three great-great-grandchildren.

Duane William Hawbaker

Duane William Hawbaker died on March 16, 2023, at Iowa Methodist Medical Center in Des Moines. Duane was born Nov. 28, 1929, in Waukee, to Daniel and Anna (Wenger) Hawbaker. He married Pearl Jean Zimmerman on Feb. 6, 1949, in Dallas Center.
Duane farmed 320 acres of land near Redfield for several years, raising all types of livestock, in addition to field crops. Following farming, he was a mechanic and parts manager for Geneser Implement in Granger and R&R Equipment in Indianola.
Duane was an avid fisherman and retired to Twin Lakes, Missouri, until Jean’s passing. He then spent most of the rest of his retirement in Adel.
He is survived by his children, Donna Goings, Darrel (Sandy), Diana Hawbaker and Doyle (Freda); nine grandchildren; 26 great-grandchildren and a great-grandson on the way. He was preceded in death by his wife; parents; siblings, Carl, infant brother Orville, Zelda Rittgers and Dwight; and son-in-law, Rob Goings.
Visitation was Thursday, March 23 at Iles Brandt Chapel, Dallas Center. Services were held at 10:30 a.m., Friday, March 24 at Valley Junction Church of God, 321 Elm St., West Des Moines. Interment will be at Brethren Cemetery, Dallas Center.
Memorial contributions may be directed to Lighthouse of Christ Church in Adel, Valley Junction Church of God or a charity of the donor’s choice. Online condolences are welcome at www.IlesCares.com.

Ashleigh Lynn Merical

Ashleigh Lynn Merical, 25, was born in Denver, Colorado, on Oct. 24, 1997, and suddenly passed away on March 15, 2023, in Des Moines.
She enjoyed many travels and adventures. Her dream was to travel the world with those whom she loved. Ashleigh also enjoyed camping and being outdoors. Her latest adventure was ice fishing with her love, David. She was always willing to try or go anywhere at least once. She was everyone’s cheerleader. She always saw the best in people, even when they didn’t see it in themselves.
Ashleigh is survived by her father, Jack Merical; mother, Mona Mangiagli; significant other, David Little; sisters, Kaitlyn (fiancé, Ryan) Feenstra and Kassidy Merical; brothers, Jackson Merical and Sammy Lund; her dog, Scout; nephews, Wesley Feenstra and Thomas Sudbrock; maternal grandmother, Georgia (Cory) Hainline; paternal grandparents, Jack and Glenna Marical; and many extended family.
Visitation was Thursday, March 23 at Caldwell Parrish Funeral Home, McCalley Chapel in Adel. Funeral services were at 11 a.m., Friday, March 24, at the funeral home. Burial followed in the Oakdale Cemetery. A memorial account has been set up for the family at Raccoon Valley Bank. Checks should be made out to the Ashleigh Merical Memorial. Online condolences may be left at www.caldwellparrish.com.

Sister Mary Kayleen Heffron, CHM

Sister Mary Kayleen Heffron, CHM, 91, died March 6, 2023, at Bishop Drumm Care Center in Johnston. Mary Catherine Heffron was born April 4, 1931, in Georgetown, Iowa, to Michael and Agnes (Murphy) Heffron. She entered the Congregation of the Humility of Mary in 1959 and professed vows in 1962.
Sister was an accomplished nurse, having completed her RN degree from the St. Joseph School of Nursing in Ottumwa in 1952, her associate’s degree from Ottumwa Heights College in 1962, and her BSN from St. Ambrose College in Davenport in 1963. Sister also spent the summer of 1977 taking graduate courses at the University of Iowa in Iowa City.
Once her RN was completed, S. Kayleen worked as a nurse in the Monroe County Hospital in Albia. After entering the Congregation and completing her BSN, she served at St. Joseph Hospital in Ottumwa for 23 years as a nurse, working in the operating room, the ICCU, and as an ER supervisor. After the closure of the St. Joseph Health and Rehabilitation Center in 1987, she took a year’s sabbatical before working as an RN in the Skilled Nursing Facility and Physical Rehab Unit at the Ottumwa Regional Health Center until her retirement. During this long medical career, she served on several hospital committees and was a member of both the Iowa Nurses’ Association and the American Nurses’ Association.
S. Kayleen is preceded in death by her parents and brothers John, David and Vincent. She is survived by brothers Patrick (Linda) and Edward (Louise) Heffron, Michael, sister-in-law, Kathleen Heffron, nieces and nephews and members of her religious community.
A Mass of Christian Burial was celebrated on Saturday, March 11, followed by burial in Mt. Calvary Cemetery in Davenport. Memorials may be made to the Congregation of the Humility of Mary.

Della Mae Bebber

Della Mae Bebber, 95, died at Bishop Drumm Retirement Center on March 11, 2023. Della was born in Des Moines to Otis and Mary (Ridgeway) Bunch on May 2, 1927. She married James E. Bebber on July 27, 1944.
Della worked side by side with her husband for many years at A & P Grocery Stores before the grocery store chain closed. She took early retirement from the grocery chain and went back to work at Wallace Homestead in Des Moines until 1984, when she and her husband retired to Arizona for the winters.
Della is survived by her daughters, Judith Green and Karen (Jack) Davis; three grandchildren; five great-grandchildren; and a great-great-grandson. Other survivors include siblings Robert (Donna) Clark, Martha Martin and Dorothy (Gary) Huss; sister-in-law, Helen Penman; and numerous nieces, nephews and friends. She was preceded in death by her parents, husband of 62 years, six brothers, two sisters, son-in-law, David Green, and an infant son, Jimmy Joe.
Memorials may be directed to the family. No services are planned, and a private burial will be held at a later date.

Thomas Lendt

Thomas Lendt died Thursday, March 9 at age 61 after a long battle with cancer. For many years, Tom served as the shop teacher for the Saydel High School district where he formed lifelong friendships with both students and faculty. After he retired from teaching, he became a valet for Methodist hospital, enjoying the combination of parking cars and greeting people as they entered the facility. Later on in life, Tom started a new job transporting medication to area pharmacies.
Tom enjoyed annual vacation trips to the Florida Keys with his wife, and, when not on the beach with a drink in his hand, he could be found out in his garage fixing up old machinery and restoring ancient equipment to life. Tom adored his family and friends and could always be counted on to share a story from his life, even with people who were strangers just moments before.
Tom was preceded in death by his parents, David and Alice Lendt, and, survived by his wife, Traci Lendt, and sisters, Stephanie Lendt and Sally (Dan) Anderson.
Tom was cremated, and a celebration of life for friends and family will be arranged for a later date. Online condolences may be expressed at www.hamiltonsfuneralhome.com.

Robert Eugene Whitlatch

Robert Eugene Whitlatch, 83, of Polk City, died March 7, 2023. Bob was what you may call a jack of many trades — working in the grocery store business, being an amazing ballroom dancer and a retail success selling horse equipment. Horses were one of Bob’s lifelong loves. He and his first horse, Major, started showing around 1957. Bob gave lessons to children for many years. He and Helen Nymeyer were a dynamic duo for quite a few years before Bob went to work for Schneiders Saddlery. In the mid 1980s, Bob had another dream come true — he was asked to be a ringmaster at the Arabian Nationals.
Bob is survived by his sister, Lela Mae Cameron (Reuben), and numerous nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his parents, Amos and Gelene Whitlatch; sister, Phyllis; and brother, Larry.
The family has asked donations be made to the Arabian Horsemen’s Distress Fund in Bob’s honor, another chance for him to make a difference for a horseman in need, at www.horsemensdistressfund.com. According to Bob’s wishes, there will be no formal services. Condolences may be left at www.hamiltonsfuneralhome.com.

Florence Marie (Bowles) Stucker

Florence Marie (Bowles) Stucker, 93, of Adel, is now with her soulmate, Robert, to whom she was married for 76 years. She is remembered by her loved ones for her love, her good cheer and humor and her unwavering moral support and acceptance, as well as her beautiful handmade quilts and sweaters.
Florence was born May 12, 1929, in Rifle, Colorado, the eldest child of Nellie and Nonie Bowles. As an infant, she and her parents moved to rural Ellis County, Oklahoma, where she lived until she was married to Robert Stucker in Higgins, Texas, Jan. 17, 1946. The couple rented a 300-acre farm in Texas for three years. After working in other farm jobs and seismography (blowing up dynamite underground to find oil), in 1950, she and Robert began a 30-year journey which started in Guymon, Oklahoma, and ended in Marshfield, Wisconsin. He was an operator of natural gas compressor stations. They retired in 1980.
Their only child, Virgil Robert Stucker, was born in 1952. During retirement, Robert and Florence volunteered with their son, his wife, Lis, and their family for nonprofit programs serving people recovering from mental illness. Robert and Florence actively helped to raise Lis and Virgil’s four children. For the last decades of life, they lived in Adel, where they have enjoyed and benefited from fun times with the many members of Florence’s family.
Florence died on March 11, 2023; her husband, Robert, died on Feb. 27, 2022. She is survived by her son, Virgil (Lis); four grandchildren, Dominic (Esme), Christoph (Sarah), Heidi (Sutton) and Stephanie (Matthew); and nine great-grandchildren, Issabelle, Moira, Tiegen, Maddox, Olivia, Rebekah, Eliana, Cass and Frances. The family acknowledges devoted caregiver Mary Hinton, who became like a granddaughter.
Memorial donations may be made to the Adel United Methodist Church. Funeral services will be held at 10 a.m. Saturday, March 18, at the United Methodist Church in Adel. Family will greet friends from 9-10 a.m. at the church before the service. Burial will be at Oakdale Cemetery in Adel. Online condolences maybe left at www.caldwellparrish.com.

Gergenna Rae Mardesen

Gergenna Rae Mardesen was born in Exira on June 4, 1944, to Harvey Mardesen and Gwendolyn Beers. She attended school in Exira, was crowned homecoming queen, graduated, and moved to Des Moines to attend the Iowa School of Beauty. While at beauty school, she met William Horner, whom she married on Nov. 22, 1964. She had two sons, Jamie and Jeffrie Horner, and took care of them for many years, working multiple jobs to make ends meet and support her family. Prior to retirement, she made the transition to living in Johnston, where she made many new friends while also managing to keep in contact with and care for many old friends and family. She finally retired at the age of 70 and spent the last few years enjoying time with friends and family members. She was a long-time member of the Glen Echo Christian Church in Des Moines.
She died Feb. 24, 2023, at Kavanaugh Hospice House in Des Moines with her sons by her side. She is also survived by her sister, brother-in-law, daughter-in-law, two granddaughters, and many other family members and friends.
A celebration of life will be held on Saturday, March 25 from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. at Merle Hay Funeral Home, 4400 Merle Hay Road, Des Moines. In lieu of flowers, please send donations to Ellipsis, P.O. Box 39, Johnston, IA 50131.

Wesley Borlin

Wesley Borlin, 74, died Feb. 26, 2023, in Johnston. He was born in Des Moines on Feb. 5, 1949, the son of George and Dolores (Bergstrom) Borlin. Wes graduated from North High School in 1967, then from Iowa State with a bachelor of science in mathematics in 1971. After college, he began teaching at Sacred Heart Catholic School in West Des Moines, where he taught math, science and art. Wes worked at the Iowa Department of Job Services as a fraud investigator. While there, he met the love of his life and best friend, Shelley. The couple was married Oct. 26, 1978, at Browns Chapel in Indianola. Wes went on to own and operate his own real estate business. He also owned and operated the Beer Barn in Saylorville and the Last Draw Saloon. While running these successful businesses, he went back to school at DMACC for computer programming. Wes worked for Unisys, State of Iowa, Nationwide and Aviva in information technology. He retired from Aviva on Dec. 31, 2012.
Wes is survived by his wife; children, Wendy (Kyle) Peterson, Christopher (Kimberly) Borlin and Stephen Borlin; father; grandson; and sister. He is preceded in death by his mother, brother, and grandson, Jeremy Borlin.
A memorial gathering was held Friday, March 3 at Hamilton’s near Highland Memory Gardens in Des Moines. Memorial contributions may be directed to the family in loving memory of Wes. Online condolences may be expressed at www.hamiltonsfuneralhome.com.

Roland Charles ‘Chuck’ Hyde

Roland Charles “Chuck” Hyde, 82, of Adel died March 3, 2023. A celebration of Chuck’s life visitation will be held from 3-5 p.m. on Saturday, March 11 at Caldwell Parrish McCalley Chapel in Adel.
Chuck was born May 20, 1940, in Millbank, South Dakota, the son of Roland and Wava Hyde. The family moved to Council Bluffs where Chuck graduated from high school. He went to South Dakota State College for two years and finished his studies at the University of Nebraska - Omaha. He was active in track, football and basketball.
After college, he worked at International Harvester then Northwestern Bell Telephone Co. in Omaha and then Des Moines, where he met Peggy Walsh. They married in 1971 and formed a combined family of five children. They lived in Urbandale then in rural Redfield.
He enjoyed hunting duck and pheasant, playing golf and raising tropical fish, horses and several breeds of dogs.
In 1986, they were both transferred to Omaha, where they worked for four years before retiring in 1990 and moving back to Iowa. They built a home in Adel on 13 acres. Chuck got a job at Doc’s Hunt Club where he trained dogs and was a guide. He won a national championship with his German Shorthair “Spice.” When the hunt club sold, Chuck managed the Club House at Hillcrest.
Chuck is survived by his wife of 52 years, Peggy; his stepdaughter, Debbie (Jeff) Baker of Redfield; stepson Matt Walsh of West Des Moines; daughter Deborah (Bernard) of Council Bluffs; daughter Jacque of Council Bluffs; son Kent of Council Bluffs, and sisters Barbara and Julie, also from Council Bluffs. Chuck is also survived by nine grandchildren and eight great-grandchildren.
Memorials may be directed to the family for later designation. Online condolences may be left at www.caldwellparrish.com.

Ruth Laughridge

Ruth Laughridge, 71, of Van Meter, died surrounded by her family on March 3, 2023, at the MercyOne Hospice House in Johnston.
Ruth was born on April 28, 1951, to Chester and Peggy (Roggendorf) Lawman in Fort Dodge. She graduated from Adel High School in 1969 and married Larry Laughridge in Adel on July 12, 1986. Ruth worked at Preferred Risk, now GuideOne Insurance, for 48 years as a business analyst.
Ruth enjoyed the outdoors, camping and doing various landscaping and yard chores. She liked working in her flower beds and attending Chicago and Iowa Cubs baseball games in the summer. When not able to be outdoors, she enjoyed cross stitching.
Ruth is survived by her husband, Larry; two sons, Travis (Jess) and Daniel (Katie); three grandchildren, Zaiden, Theo and Jack; along with many siblings, nieces, nephews and extended family.
A private family graveside service will be held at a later date in the Van Meter Cemetery. Friends and family will be invited to a celebration of life to be held at a later date to be determined. The family asks that memorial contributions be made to the Ovarian Cancer Research Alliance and/or to the MercyOne Hospice House in Johnston. Online condolences may be left to the family at www.caldwellparrish.com.

Nancy Louise Renfrow

Nancy Louise Renfrow died March 6, 2023. Nancy was born the daughter of Roger and Melva Shiery on Jan. 22, 1931, in Dallas Center. She graduated from Dallas Center High School in 1948.
Nancy was married to the love of her life, Wilbur Junior Renfrow, on July 1, 1949. They had two sons, Daniel Dean and David Neil. She was a lifelong resident of Dallas County, living in Dallas Center until moving to Adel in 1979.
Nancy worked side by side with Wilbur on their farm along with working at Hy-Line Chicken Farms, Sears, as a seamstress, and, later in life, at Congregate Meals in Adel. She had a love of gardening and square dancing. She spent the last 40 years playing bluegrass music with “the pickers” and cooking Sunday dinner for the family.
Nancy is survived by her sons, Daniel Dean (Martha Seibert) of Dallas Center and David Neil (Susan) of Adel; her grandchildren, Roger (Lynne) Renfrow of Perry, Nicole (Shawn Pepel) Renfrow of Earlham, Riley Renfrow of West Des Moines, Justin Merical of Perry and Matthew Merical of Van Meter; and great-grandchildren Grace Merical, Peyton and Isabel Pepel, and Paislee and Cason Renfrow. She was preceded in death by her husband, Wilbur, and sister, Carol Jean Hansen, of Plano, Texas.
There will be a private graveside service at Brethren Cemetery in Dallas Center at a later date where she will be laid to rest with her beloved husband, Wilbur.
Memorial contributions may be directed to MercyOne Hospice in Johnston.

David Clark Moorman

David Clark Moorman, 58, died Feb. 18, 2023, at Iowa Methodist Medical Center in Des Moines. He was born Nov. 29, 1964, in Owensboro, Kentucky, the son of David Keats Moorman and Doris Jane (Lyons) Moorman. He accepted Jesus Christ as his Savior and was baptized during his middle-school years at Macedonia Baptist Church. He attended Daviess County High School in Owensboro, Kentucky, and graduated from Eisenhower High School in New Berlin, Wisconsin, in 1983. He attended Baylor University in Waco, Texas, then graduated from the University of Wisconsin (Madison) in 1988 with an industrial engineering degree and was employed in the Chicago area. He married Marcey Bender in 1990, and they had three children. He moved to Johnston in 2019.
Dave was preceded in death by an infant sister, Melanie Moorman, in 1967 and an infant son, Trevor John Moorman, in 1997; and by grandparents, numerous aunts, uncles and cousins. Dave is survived by his children, Jenna Renée Moorman, Trent David Moorman and Bryce Alexander Moorman; parents; two younger brothers; eight nieces and nephews; four uncles; three aunts; numerous cousins and friends; and special friend, Michelle Hart.
His memorial service was on March 4 at NorthPoint Church in Johnston. Memorial contributions may be made to NorthPoint Church, a charitable organization of your choice, or a GoFundMe account for his son’s college education: www.gofundme.com/f/bryces-college-fund-in-memory-of-david-moorman.

Ana Marie Kramme

Ana Maria Kramme, 68, daughter of Peter and Elsa Gonzalez, was born July 9, 1954, in Waterloo. She passed at home in Adel on Feb. 20, 2023. She married Steven Kramme on Oct. 24, 1981. They have two children, David and Sara. She retired from John Deere in 2013 and enjoyed fishing, gardening and traveling the U.S.
Survivors include her brothers, Joseph (Karen) and Michael (Susan), and many nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her brother, David.
A celebration of Ana’s life will be held Saturday, March 25, from noon to 3 p.m. at AMVETS Post 49, 1934 Irving St., Cedar Falls. In lieu of flowers, memorials are suggested to 24705 J. Ave., Adel, IA 50003, to go toward a celebration of life and a donation to hospice in Ana’s name.

David ‘Dave’ Riley Lustgraaf

David “Dave” Riley Lustgraaf, 76, son of Barbara (Pinkerton) and Harold (Ark) Lustgraaf, was born May 10, 1946, in Greeley, Colorado. He died Thursday, Feb. 23, 2023, at home in Polk City.
Dave graduated from Abraham Lincoln High School in Council Bluffs in 1964. He married the love of his life, Janice Hopkins, on Aug. 20, 1965, in Council Bluffs. The couple began their family together and resided in Council Bluffs. Dave was a meat cutter for Safeway for 19 years before opening the Minden Meat Market in Minden, where they worked closely together until they retired in 1996 and moved to Polk City. After settling in Polk City, Dave became a truck driver for Green Products in Conrad. He did this for the next 20 years and retired again. He then went to work for TMC Transportation as a truck driver trainer until April of 2020, and he retired for the last time.
He is survived by his children, Patrick “Pat” (Sheryl) Lustgraaf and Laura (Scott Crouse) Larson; four grandchildren; three great-grandchildren; two sisters; brother; and nephews and nieces. He was preceded in death by his wife, parents, and daughter, Julie Lustgraaf.
Visitation will be held Saturday, March 4 from 1-3 p.m. at the Twigg Funeral Home, Panora. His cremains will be buried in Council Bluffs at a later date. Memorial contributions may be directed to the Salvation Army in Dave’s memory.

Charley Izabel Decker

Charley Izabel Decker, 8, of Johnston, died Thursday, Feb. 16, 2023, at Mercy Hospital with her family at her side. Charley was born March 26, 2014, in Des Moines to Travis Joseph Decker and Juana Medina Gutierrez. She started life at a mere 3 pounds, 6 ounces and quickly began on her path of proving that the best things in life come in small packages. Charley’s strength and determination were inspirational to all around her and enabled her to defy her medical diagnoses and accomplish her goals. She endured many challenges in her short life but always did so with a smile on her face and never a complaint.
Charley had an infectious smile and giggle that would brighten any room she was in. She loved bright lights, loud music, snuggling, her big brother’s dancing, watching her favorite movie “Cinderella” (1950) with her father, and spa days with her mother where she would get her hair styled and her nails done with fun designs. Charley was a daddy’s girl whose hair and nails became her trademark. When not enjoying time with her family, Charley attended Beaver Creek Elementary, where she had the most amazing teachers and so many friends who made huge impacts on her and her family.
Survivors include parents, Travis Decker and Juana Gutierrez; brother, A J; Grandma Donna Copeland, Dena (Nathan) Spray, Javier (Jeanna) Gutierrez, Agustin Gutierrez, Chelo (Craig) Wainwright; all her cousins: Wesley, Jacob (Haley), Lucas, Sam, Javier (Shelby), Alejandro, Viviana, Sophia, Isabella, Taylor and Jaiden; her extended family who were with the family from the very beginning; her care staff at Mercy, including all her doctors, rehabilitation specialists and mobility device providers.
Preceding her in death were grandparents: Carl Joseph Decker, Agustin Gutierrez and Consuelo Gutierrez. In lieu of funeral services, a birthday celebration will be held at a later date.

Christine Gale Matthews

Christine Gale (Warren) Matthews, 71, of Johnston, died Feb. 3, 2023, after her battle with cancer. Chris was born on Nov. 11, 1951, to Betty (Watson) Warren and Jim Warren. She was the oldest of three children and grew up in Urbandale. Christine married Jeff Matthews in 1968, and they had two sons. Despite divorcing, Chris and Jeff remained friends through the years.
Chris was preceded in death by her parents and brother, Rick Warren. She is survived by her sister, Terry Warren; her sons, Chad and Jason Matthews; her co-parent/friend, Jeff Matthews; one granddaughter and two great-grandchildren. A celebration of life was held Saturday, Feb. 18 at 6365 Merle Hay Road in Johnston.

Arvilla Mary Oxenford

Arvilla Mary Oxenford was born June 23, 1930, in Dedham, to Joseph and Theresa (Bauer) Wiskus. She died Feb. 16, 2023, at Bishop Drumm Care Center in Johnston at age 92. Arvilla was the second oldest of 12 children on the Wiskus family farm. She attended St. Joseph School in Dedham. Arvilla was industrious and worked at the Manning Hatchery along with helping to raise her brothers and sisters. After relocating to Des Moines, she was employed at Meredith. Arvilla married Richard Oxenford, and to this union three children were born.
She is survived by her children, Paul (Lisa) Oxenford and Lori (Hari) Mangalapalli; many grandchildren and great-grandchildren; three sisters and two brothers. She was preceded in death by her husband in 2016; son, Steve, in 2020; parents; and six siblings.
A graveside service was held Tuesday, Feb. 21 at St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham. Memorial contributions may be directed to St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. Condolences may be expressed at www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com.

Harold LeRoy Dwinell

Harold LeRoy Dwinell, 85, formerly of Adel, died in his sleep on Feb. 21, 2023, at the Aspire Care Center in Gowrie. Harold Dwinell was born at home Jan. 3, 1938, to parents Edward Challis and Ruth Viola (Burchfield) Dwinell. He grew up living on farms, which taught him to work with animals. He enjoyed animals all his life and would try to get squirrels to take a peanut from him. Sometimes he succeeded.
When Harold was a teen, his mother had a massive stroke, so, being the youngest, he took care of the cooking for the family. Ruth would give directions until he learned to create on his own. This skill of cooking carried through his life. He made many meals for his family growing up, his own family and family holiday meals.
On May 24, 1958, Harold married Shirley Ann Hayes. The couple raised four children, Lou Ann (Bob) Snodgrass, Lori Lea (David) Carlon, Lynne (Jory) Hire and Lance. Harold worked for the railroad in his younger years then at Wright Tree Service. He finished his working career as a semi-truck driver.
Camping was a family activity. Harold took his family on trips across the country to see family in an old remodeled school bus, and to “Swalla’s” farm where the fire was always built up high. Harold and Shirley also took many local trips with friends on his motorcycle to see the country and visit family. In retirement, Harold and Shirley traveled in a motorhome. Harold liked playing cards and teaching his kids and grandkids how to play cribbage. Cribbage was one of his favorite pastimes at home, in a downtown tournament, or on the computer.
Harold enjoyed gardening, talking with “new” friends while camping, fixing bikes so people he cared about had a bike to ride, and watching animals in the yard.
Harold was preceded in death by his wife of 61 years, Shirley; his parents; and sister, Janice. He is survived by his children; 13 grandchildren; several great-grandchildren; a brother, Ronald Dwinell; along with many extended family and friends.
A visitation will be held from 10 a.m. to noon on March 25 at Caldwell Parrish Funeral Home, McCalley Chapel. A private burial will be held in the Oakdale Cemetery. Online condolences may be left for the family at www.caldwellparris.com. Memorials may be directed to the Cancer Society or to a local food pantry.

Edward Leon Stroeber

Edward Leon Stroeber, the eldest of three children born to Edward W. and Elva L. (Forsyth) Stroeber, was born June 5, 1941, at his grandmother’s home in Madison County. Ed attended grade school at Arispe and Macksburg. He then attended Adel High School where he met the love of his life, Judith E. Ramsey. They were married 51 years.
Ed is survived by his sister, Janet (Jim) Shelby: sister-in-law, Donna Adamson; four daughters, Kathy (Ernest) Mack, Susan Stroeber, Joanne (Cara) Stroeber and Linda Stroeber; four granddaughters; 10 great grandchildren; and many other family members. He was preceded in death by his parents; wife, Judy; brother, Ray; brother-in-law, Merle Adamson; and nephew, Michael Adamson.
A funeral service was held Feb. 20 at Caldwell Parrish Funeral Home – McCalley Chapel. Burial was at Panther Creek Cemetery west of Adel.
Memorials may be directed to the family. Online condolences may be left at www.caldwellparrish.com.

Carolyn Mario Colosimo

Carolyn Maria Colosimo, 82, died peacefully on Feb. 4, 2023, due to complications of Alzheimer’s disease at Brio of Johnston. Carolyn was born on July 9, 1940, in Des Moines. She was the oldest child and only daughter of Tony and Rose (Formaro) Mazza. Carolyn, and her family were lifelong south-side residents of Des Moines.
Carolyn graduated from St. Joseph’s Academy. The summer before her senior year in 1957, she met the love of her life, Charlie Colosimo, at Gray’s Lake Beach. They were married the following August and had 61 blissful years of marriage. Charlie and Carolyn were partners in successful business endeavors, starting with the purchase of C&C Produce, Potato Processing, and expanding into C&C Distribution/Warehousing. Carolyn’s skill of preparing authentic Italian dishes and her talent in hospitality led her to venture into a small side catering business called Carolina’s Catering.
Carolyn is survived by her nine children, Rose (Steve) Cash, Tony (Kate) Colosimo, Charlie Jr. (Susan) Colosimo, Bobby Colosimo, Maria (Dave) Jordan, Carolyn (Steve) LeWarne, Nicole Colosimo, Christina (Lincoln) Grimes, and Cassandra Colosimo; 29 grandchildren; 15 great-grandchildren and a host of extended family. She is preceded in death by her husband, parents, grandson Charlie III, brother Pete and in-laws.
Visitation was held Wednesday, Feb. 8, and funeral mass on Thursday, Feb. 9 at St. Augustin Catholic Church, with burial at Glendale Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be given to Brio of Johnston - Elan Cottage, in memory of Carolyn Colosimo.

Raymond Marsh Burnett

Raymond Marsh Burnett, 89, died Feb. 9, 2023, at UnityPoint Hospital in Des Moines. Ray was born on July 11, 1933, in Monroe to Leslie and Myrtle (Williamson) Burnett. He graduated from Knoxville High School. Ray enlisted in the Air Force in 1953. After being discharged from active duty, Ray joined the Iowa Air National Guard in Des Moines. He retired from the Air National Guard as a respected leader and friend in 1985 with the rank of chief master sergeant. Ray was a member of the National Guard’s Silver Squadron. He was a long-time member of College Avenue Christian Church and a current member at Wakonda Christian Church.
Ray is survived by his wife of 64 years, Joan; their children: Dan (Gretchen), Jill (John) Requist, and Tim; and four grandchildren. Ray was preceded in death by his parents and four siblings.
A memorial service will be held Sunday, Feb. 26 at 3 p.m. at Wakonda Christian Church, Des Moines, with visitation from 1-3 p.m. A private burial service will be held Friday, Feb. 24 at the Iowa Veterans Cemetery in Dallas County.

Shirley Jean Fuller

On Sunday, Jan. 15, 2023, Shirley Jean Fuller, 93, slipped away from life and the loving arms of the family who surrounded her as she left this world. That day, we lost a devoted mother, loving grandmother, great grandmother and great-great grandmother, dear sister and wonderful friend. She was a dedicated wife to Bob Fuller (married 53 years until his death in 2001) and his loyal business partner at Fuller Petroleum in Adel.
Shirley loved her family, ceramics, her work as a travel agent, her time in Eastern Star, fishing in Minnesota, Adel Sweet Corn Parade, vacations, riding her bike, watching old movies, playing cribbage and dominoes with her grandkids, apple salad and homemade ice cream. Throughout her last years, she displayed incredible fortitude, bravery and a strength of character and resiliency that was a shining example to her family.
Shirley was born April 7, 1929, in Ottumwa to Harold and Blanch Fredrickson. She was the middle child and loved well by her parents and two brothers and two sisters. Shirley met Bob on a blind date, married Oct. 3, 1948, in Dallas Center and eventually moved to Adel where they raised their four sons. Left to share in her legacy are Kelly (Debra), Terry (Cathy) and Tom (Linda), 10 grandchildren, 21 great grandchildren and two great-great grandchildren, her brother, Rick, and sister, Roxie. Her husband, Robert, son, Gregg, and two siblings, Glenn (Bud) Fredrckson and Corrine Grogan, preceded her in death.
Shirley’s family expresses their deepest gratitude to her friends and staff at Spurgeon Manor in Dallas Center for the loving care she received during her years there and for easing her transition from this life to the next.
A memorial service for Shirley will be held at 11 a.m. on Saturday, Feb. 25, in Adel at Faith Lutheran Church followed by a private burial in Oakdale Cemetery. Family and friends are invited to remember and celebrate Shirley and attend a luncheon in her honor directly following the service. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Good Samaritan Food Pantry in Adel.

Jessica Lynn McDonald

Jessica Lynn McDonald, 44, of De Soto, passed away on Feb. 8, 2023, unexpectedly. A celebration of life visitation for Jessica will be held Friday, Feb. 17 at Caldwell Parrish McCalley Chapel in Adel, from 2-5 p.m. A service will be held after the visitation beginning at 5 p.m. A private burial will take place at a later date.
Jessica was born July 6, 1978, in Colorado to Cindy and Larry Stepp. Jessica graduated from ADM High school in 1997. She then attended the Iowa School of Beauty and received her cosmetology license. On Oct. 10, 2001, Jessica was united in marriage to Joe McDonald. Through this union two children, Taylor and Sabrina, were born. Jessica and Joe raised their children in De Soto where she grew up and spent her life.
Many will remember Jessica for her infectious laugh that would fill a room. Her freckles she adored, her warm smile, and her heart that was bigger than she let on. She loved to collect pictures, heartfelt notes, or anything special; her biggest collection was her assortment of elephants. She enjoyed creating pieces of art that she would sell through her small business, JM Designs, including her custom tumblers and resin art. While Jessica had many hobbies and interests, her true love was her family and fur babies she cherished, but above all, she loved her girls, Taylor and Sabrina.
She is survived by her husband, Joe; daughters, Sabrina and Taylor; parents, Larry and Cindy Stepp; brother, Jason (Sheiry) Slycord; sisters, Stephanie (Ron) Wine and Heather Poggensse; along with several nieces, nephews and cousins.
She is preceded in death by her great-grandparents, Lester and Ila June Steelman and Mildred Emehiser; grandfather, Cordell Steelman; aunt, Lori Steelman; nephew, Devon Slycord; father-in-law, Tom McDonald, and grandmother-in-law, Catherine Rush.
Memorials may be directed to the family. Donations may be sent through the Venmo app to TayMcD18 and checks can be made out to Taylor McDonald. Online condolences may be left at www.caldwellparrish.com.

Caelen Peterson

On Feb. 8, 2023, Caelen Peterson, loving son, grandson, brother, nephew and friend, passed away at the age of 14. Caelen was born on May 2, 2008, to Dale and Lindsey Peterson.
Caelen had a passion for the outdoors and his animals. He was also an avid music lover and a fan of traveling. He was known for his quick wit, his infectious smile, and his kind and compassionate spirit. Caelen has often been described as “a best friend,” “an only friend” and “a first friend” by many who knew him. Caelen had an old soul and the biggest heart anyone could meet. Caelen was fiercely loyal to anyone he called “friend” and could piece the most shattered of hearts back together with a hug and smart-mouthed joke.
Caelen is preceded in death by his aunt, Carleen Sass, great-uncle, David Wright and grandfather, David Lanier. He is survived by loving parents; brothers, Rowan and Rylan; grandparents, Cathy and Oren Peterson; grandmother, Laurie Reynolds; aunts, Joelle Peterson and Kelley Lanier; and numerous cousins and family friends.
A celebration of Caelen’s life was held Feb. 15 at the Caldwell Parrish Funeral Home with a time of comfort and support from 3-7 p.m.

Dale Lee Baugh

Dale Lee Baugh, 73, died Feb. 11, 2023, at MercyOne Medical Center in Des Moines. The son of Delmar and Nellie (Fitz) Baugh, he was born Sept. 18, 1949, in Manning. Following graduating from Panora High School, Dale went on to be a truck driver for many years. He then opened his own business, Fat Boy Archery and Bait Shop, and ran that for 10-15 years. During this time, he went on to work at Iowa Spring in Adel, in shipping and receiving, where he was employed at the time of his death.
He is survived by his children, Michael Baugh, Heather (Steven) Renner and Amanda (Dusty) Petek; seven grandchildren; and sister. He was preceded in death by his parents.
Funeral services will be 10:30 a.m. on Tuesday, Feb. 21 at the Twigg Funeral Home, Panora, with burial in the Brethren Cemetery, Panora. Visitation will be Monday, Feb. 20, from 5-7 p.m. at the funeral home.

Edward Anderson Jr.

Edward “Ed” Anderson Jr., 63, died Feb. 10, 2023. He was born on April 27, 1959, to Edward Anderson Sr. and Elouise (Cook) Anderson in Avon, Illinois. He attended the University of Iowa where he also had a job in the woodworking department. For almost 25 years, he worked at United Brick and Tile in Adel as the assistant plant manager. He had to leave his job sooner than expected due to health reasons.
He is survived by his wife of 12 years, Shirley; father; children, Jacki Anderson and Kyle Goracke; four grandchildren; brother; and extended family. He was preceded in death by his mother and mother-in-law.
A celebration of life will be held 5-8 p.m. on Friday, Feb. 17 at First Presbyterian Church in Grimes. Instead of flowers, a fund has been started for the medical bills Ed has accumulated over the years. Donations can be made through Venmo to @JackiAndersonStylist.

Wilma Blanche (Maile) Rushing

Wilma Blanche (Maile) Rushing, 86, died at Mercy West Hospital on Feb. 2 surrounded by loved ones. She was the eighth child born to Charles and Cynthia (Blanche) Garnett Maile on Nov. 11, 1936, in Seligman, Missouri. Wilma grew up on a farm in rural Iowa between Scranton and Jefferson and graduated from Scranton Consolidated Schools.
She married Jerry Allen Rushing on Feb. 8, 1957. They were married for 42 years until his death in 1999. Together, they raised their kids in Johnston. She was generous with her time and resources, giving to family members and others in need, volunteering for many organizations and as a loving foster parent. She was instrumental in bringing congregate meals at Crown Point Senior Center and was a regular volunteer in the office. Most recently, she resided in Independent Living at Meadowview of Johnston, just a mile from where she lived for 47 years.
She had four children, Ron (Jeanine) Rushing, Carrie (Scott) Makin, Terry (Nyle) Rushing and Diane (Bobby) Elliott; 10 grandkids; 13 great-grandkids (with one due in May) and was a great-great-grandma. She is preceded in death by one grandson, four brothers and one sister, with one sister surviving.
A visitation was held Saturday, Feb. 11 at Merle Hay Funeral Home.

William “Willy” Charles Leatherby

William “Willy” Charles Leatherby, 83, of Johnston, died peacefully at home on Jan. 27, 2023. Willy was born in Des Moines to Melvin and Margaret Leatherby. In his early adulthood, he studied aviation, served in the National Guard, and built award-winning custom motorcycles. In his 40s, he met Mary. They fell in love, and their love story never ended. Together they raised four children.
He is survived by his wife, Mary; children, Shannon Dorrian, James (Panna) Leatherby, Tracy (Brian) Tarlton, Joseph Leatherby, Jennifer Leatherby; 13 grandchildren; three great-grandchildren; several nieces and nephews, and his sister. He was preceded in death by his daughter, Sheilah; great-grandson, Jameson; and his parents.
A celebration of life will be held on June 10. In lieu of flowers, please send memorial donations to the family. A GoFundMe account has been set up at https://gofund.me/30493198.

Robert Merle McAfee

Robert Merle McAfee, 87, of Des Moines, died on Jan. 31, 2023, surrounded by family at Genesis Senior Living Care Center. He was born March 23, 1935, to Merle and Hazel McAfee in Des Moines. He graduated from East High School. Bob married Barbara Engstrum on Oct. 19, 1973. She resides in Kyle, Texas; they lived in Polk City for 46 years. Bob entered the United States Army in 1958 and was honorably discharged in 1962. He retired from The Wittern Group in Des Moines. He enjoyed fishing, taking walks, bingo, and gardening with his wife, Barbara. He was an active member of the Seventh Day Adventist Church in Ankeny.
Bob is survived by his wife, Barbara McAfee of Kyle, Texas; children, Toni Coats, Robert (Julie) McAfee and Laura (Lee) Waugh; stepdaughter, Dianna (Rick) Lang; nine grandchildren; 13 great-grandchildren; and many nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his parents, four sisters, and granddaughter.
Funeral services were held Tuesday, Feb. 7, at Merle Hay Funeral Home, with interment at Chapel Hill Gardens cemetery. Memorials may be in care of the family.

Judith Millsap

Judith Millsap, 78, died on Jan. 29, 2023, at Adel Acres. The family will greet friends on Feb. 17 from 10 a.m. to noon, with the funeral service to follow at noon at Hamilton’s Southtown Funeral Home, 5400 S.W. Ninth St., Des Moines. Judith will be laid to rest at Sunset Memorial Gardens Cemetery. Condolences may be expressed at www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com.

Phyllis Mae Gardner

Phyllis Mae Gardner, 94, died Dec. 31, 2022. Phyllis was born in a farmhouse between Lamont and Strawberry Point on Oct. 22, 1928, to Joseph A. Livezey and Aseneth (Brant) Livezey. To this union was also born her brother, Herold, who is deceased.
Her growing up years were spent in Fairbank. Her father died when she was very young. She received her Christian training from her mother. On May 22, 1949, she and Roger Gardner were married, and to this union, two children were born. Together, Phyllis and Roger started a successful wedding invitation business, which they carried from their home for 30 years. This brought many wonderful people across their path. In 2006, her “Hugs for Jesus Ministry” began, after the Lord gave her the idea. She shared many hugs with buttons that read, “I give hugs for Jesus. Would you like one?”
Phyllis is survived by her children, Andrea (Jerry) Meyers and Wayne (Judy) Gardner and many grandchildren, great-grandchildren, nieces and nephews.
A private family burial of cremated remains preceded a memorial service on Saturday, Feb. 4 at The Bridge in Johnston, with visitation one hour prior. Interment was at Chapel Hill Gardens. Memorial gifts may be given to Hugs for Jesus Ministry, Bridge Reformed Church, or Suncrest Hospice.

Valeta Darlene (Jacobson) Ostrander

Valeta Darlene (Jacobson) Ostrander died Jan. 23, 2023, at her home with family by her side after a long illness. Born Oct. 27, 1946, in Iowa Falls, Val was the second daughter of four girls in the Vernon and Iva (Brown) Jacobson family. She attended and graduated from Iowa Falls High School in 1965.
As a young woman, she pursued a nursing career, first obtaining her LPN degree in 1971 and then later, returning and graduating from Des Moines Mercy School of Nursing in 1989 as an RN. She loved working on the OB/GYN floor at Des Moines General and on 8 North at Mercy Hospital.
Left to share loving memories are her children, Mark (Talene) Ostrander and Amy (David) Croll; two grandchildren; two sisters and several nieces and nephews. She is preceded in death by her parents, her sister, Kathryn (Jacobson) Andersen, and brother-in-law, Allen Smith.
A celebration of Val’s life was held at Crown Point Community Center in Johnston on Sunday, Jan. 29. Memorial contributions can be made in Val’s name to Friends of Johnston Public Library, 6700 Merle Hay Road, Johnston, IA 50131 or Urbandale Friends of the Park, c/o Urbandale Parks and Recreation, 3600 86th St., Urbandale, IA 50322.